"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Attraction and Interest? Or are they the same? If they are different, explain
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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They are the same. Think of it as a ruler, let's say 18 inches long. At the beginning girl is interested. Then she becomes attracted, and attraction and interest become the same thing.. First 5 inches are interest toward becoming attracted, so to speak.. That's my view of it.
 
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creating attraction is one of the essentials of having game. 75% of the tricks you read about on this board - negs, push-pull, c&f, etc were made to get the woman attracted

interest is one of the ways you gauge attraction. that's why some guys go nuts tryign to figure out if she was giving them an IOI
 
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I think attraction and interest level are related but two different things. If a girl says this guy is attractive or this guy is interesting. Don't kid yourself we know they mean two different things. An extreme example of a girl being interested but not necessarily attracted would be a gold digger. Another example is an entertainment monkey who's in LJBFs land. She might be interested in hanging around you, but she's not attracted to you and probably won't have sex with you. A girl can be attracted to a guy but not interested for various reasons, maybe she doesn't want to leave her BF for example. You need to have both really, attraction and interest.
 
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