"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

Read more...

Is there a difference between....

S

slitherjef

Senior Don Juan
Joined
May 8, 2007
Messages
376
Reaction score
5
Location
Colorado
Attraction and Interest? Or are they the same? If they are different, explain
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

Read more...

M

Mr. Wolf

Banned
Joined
Sep 27, 2007
Messages
722
Reaction score
5
They are the same. Think of it as a ruler, let's say 18 inches long. At the beginning girl is interested. Then she becomes attracted, and attraction and interest become the same thing.. First 5 inches are interest toward becoming attracted, so to speak.. That's my view of it.
 
R

ready123

Master Don Juan
Joined
Nov 16, 2007
Messages
1,259
Reaction score
35
Location
Los Angeles
creating attraction is one of the essentials of having game. 75% of the tricks you read about on this board - negs, push-pull, c&f, etc were made to get the woman attracted

interest is one of the ways you gauge attraction. that's why some guys go nuts tryign to figure out if she was giving them an IOI
 
K

ketostix

Banned
Joined
Feb 10, 2005
Messages
3,871
Reaction score
55
I think attraction and interest level are related but two different things. If a girl says this guy is attractive or this guy is interesting. Don't kid yourself we know they mean two different things. An extreme example of a girl being interested but not necessarily attracted would be a gold digger. Another example is an entertainment monkey who's in LJBFs land. She might be interested in hanging around you, but she's not attracted to you and probably won't have sex with you. A girl can be attracted to a guy but not interested for various reasons, maybe she doesn't want to leave her BF for example. You need to have both really, attraction and interest.
 
You must log in or register to reply here.
22 Rules for Massive Success With Women
Top