Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Attraction and Interest? Or are they the same? If they are different, explain
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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They are the same. Think of it as a ruler, let's say 18 inches long. At the beginning girl is interested. Then she becomes attracted, and attraction and interest become the same thing.. First 5 inches are interest toward becoming attracted, so to speak.. That's my view of it.
 
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creating attraction is one of the essentials of having game. 75% of the tricks you read about on this board - negs, push-pull, c&f, etc were made to get the woman attracted

interest is one of the ways you gauge attraction. that's why some guys go nuts tryign to figure out if she was giving them an IOI
 
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I think attraction and interest level are related but two different things. If a girl says this guy is attractive or this guy is interesting. Don't kid yourself we know they mean two different things. An extreme example of a girl being interested but not necessarily attracted would be a gold digger. Another example is an entertainment monkey who's in LJBFs land. She might be interested in hanging around you, but she's not attracted to you and probably won't have sex with you. A girl can be attracted to a guy but not interested for various reasons, maybe she doesn't want to leave her BF for example. You need to have both really, attraction and interest.
 
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