"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Is there a difference between approaching white girls and HIspanic?

DJ_in_making

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J/k, we had every other race here so I thought I'd make one. Mods, plz don't hold this against me.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I dont see the humor here. And no I dont think there is. My current girlfriend is Latino and I am white(olive skinned Italian). I actually only date Hispanic/Latino or Italian women. No difference in the approach or the dates. I did however play dominoes at a family gathering at my girlfriends house whereas my Italian family would play poker or bingo (lame but its a family thing)
 

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Originally posted by NYtomb
I dont see the humor here. And no I dont think there is. My current girlfriend is Latino and I am white(olive skinned Italian). I actually only date Hispanic/Latino or Italian women. No difference in the approach or the dates. I did however play dominoes at a family gathering at my girlfriends house whereas my Italian family would play poker or bingo (lame but its a family thing)
Same boat here. I find it actually very easy to get latinas, being Italian, but that's just me.

The difference between approaching a white girl and a hispanic girl? Well, with the hispanic one, first you have to step around the stroller she's pushing....

I'm going to hell I know :p.
 

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Originally posted by italostud
Same boat here. I find it actually very easy to get latinas, being Italian, but that's just me.

The difference between approaching a white girl and a hispanic girl? Well, with the hispanic one, first you have to step around the stroller she's pushing....

Ain't that the truth lol.............. but Spanish girls turn me on like no other race. They are just so dam sexy.
 

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Originally posted by BuckwildNYC
Originally posted by italostud
Same boat here. I find it actually very easy to get latinas, being Italian, but that's just me.

The difference between approaching a white girl and a hispanic girl? Well, with the hispanic one, first you have to step around the stroller she's pushing....

Ain't that the truth lol.............. but Spanish girls turn me on like no other race. They are just so dam sexy.
There must be something in the NYC water that has us Italians chasing these beauties. I have run into a few with kids, but never dated one. Too many problems could arise and I am not here to support anyone financially.
My college is full of Hispanic women and white women are scarce so I am pretty limited anyway. Blonde hair and blue eyes never did it for me in the first place. I have always been attracted to the black/dark brown hair and the shape they all seem to have. There is also this attitude they seem to possess which I find attractive. I will stop rambling and get back to my business law homework.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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lol. I didn't think this would become an actual topic.

How about that Roselyn Sanchez, isn't she a beauty? Roselyn
 

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Depends on where she was raised,lives. Alot of them(us) act black.Dominicans and Puerto Rican girls usually.

If your white you have a 50-50 chance.Most of us are trained to belive the same principles white people have..but alot of us want to act ghetto for some strange reason.

They talk ebonics,want a man with "money"(having rims does not make you rich).Thug types....alot of them like black guys only.But there usually nutjobs that just like pissing there parents off.

I say go for it cuz we have the best looking and most loyal,still traditional women out there.
 

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All I gotta say is Spanish girls love us white guys too. If you are a tall fairly good-looking white guy..........walk into a Spanish club and see all the attention you get. I don't think I have ever left Copa Cabana w/o at least a number..... sometimes much more :p
 

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Originally posted by BuckwildNYC
All I gotta say is Spanish girls love us white guys too. If you are a tall fairly good-looking white guy..........walk into a Spanish club and see all the attention you get. I don't think I have ever left Copa Cabana w/o at least a number..... sometimes much more :p
I havent been there yet but pass it all the time when I am in the city. Whats the dress code and price?
 

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You gotta get dressed up. They want slacks and a collared shirt............ I think its 25 and over for guys but don't quote me on it. On Tuesdays they have an after work party that's good from like 8 to 12. Fridays I think are the best nights to go cause it's usually ladies night. If there's a big performance I've seen the door price go up to 40 bucks but usually its 20 or less.
 

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Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Originally posted by BuckwildNYC
You gotta get dressed up. They want slacks and a collared shirt............ I think its 25 and over for guys but don't quote me on it. On Tuesdays they have an after work party that's good from like 8 to 12. Fridays I think are the best nights to go cause it's usually ladies night. If there's a big performance I've seen the door price go up to 40 bucks but usually its 20 or less.
Ladies night. Good stuff although as a Law Student I have to laugh everytime I hear the term. Women want equality yet they support these ladies night discrimination. I guess discrimination is to be commended when it is in your favor.
I will probably head out one of these Fridays with my buddies.
 

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Originally posted by NYtomb
Women want equality yet they support these ladies night discrimination. I guess discrimination is to be commended when it is in your favor.
I will probably head out one of these Fridays with my buddies.
exactly!
 

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I just mack
 
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