DJ_in_making
Master Don Juan
J/k, we had every other race here so I thought I'd make one. Mods, plz don't hold this against me.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Same boat here. I find it actually very easy to get latinas, being Italian, but that's just me.Originally posted by NYtomb
I dont see the humor here. And no I dont think there is. My current girlfriend is Latino and I am white(olive skinned Italian). I actually only date Hispanic/Latino or Italian women. No difference in the approach or the dates. I did however play dominoes at a family gathering at my girlfriends house whereas my Italian family would play poker or bingo (lame but its a family thing)
Originally posted by italostud
Same boat here. I find it actually very easy to get latinas, being Italian, but that's just me.
The difference between approaching a white girl and a hispanic girl? Well, with the hispanic one, first you have to step around the stroller she's pushing....
Ain't that the truth lol.............. but Spanish girls turn me on like no other race. They are just so dam sexy.
Originally posted by BuckwildNYC
There must be something in the NYC water that has us Italians chasing these beauties. I have run into a few with kids, but never dated one. Too many problems could arise and I am not here to support anyone financially.Originally posted by italostud
Same boat here. I find it actually very easy to get latinas, being Italian, but that's just me.
The difference between approaching a white girl and a hispanic girl? Well, with the hispanic one, first you have to step around the stroller she's pushing....
Ain't that the truth lol.............. but Spanish girls turn me on like no other race. They are just so dam sexy.
My college is full of Hispanic women and white women are scarce so I am pretty limited anyway. Blonde hair and blue eyes never did it for me in the first place. I have always been attracted to the black/dark brown hair and the shape they all seem to have. There is also this attitude they seem to possess which I find attractive. I will stop rambling and get back to my business law homework.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
I havent been there yet but pass it all the time when I am in the city. Whats the dress code and price?Originally posted by BuckwildNYC
All I gotta say is Spanish girls love us white guys too. If you are a tall fairly good-looking white guy..........walk into a Spanish club and see all the attention you get. I don't think I have ever left Copa Cabana w/o at least a number..... sometimes much more![]()
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Ladies night. Good stuff although as a Law Student I have to laugh everytime I hear the term. Women want equality yet they support these ladies night discrimination. I guess discrimination is to be commended when it is in your favor.Originally posted by BuckwildNYC
You gotta get dressed up. They want slacks and a collared shirt............ I think its 25 and over for guys but don't quote me on it. On Tuesdays they have an after work party that's good from like 8 to 12. Fridays I think are the best nights to go cause it's usually ladies night. If there's a big performance I've seen the door price go up to 40 bucks but usually its 20 or less.
exactly!Originally posted by NYtomb
Women want equality yet they support these ladies night discrimination. I guess discrimination is to be commended when it is in your favor.
I will probably head out one of these Fridays with my buddies.