“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Is theory detrimental?
- Thread starter Bossman90
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
DonJuanabe
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Buddha_Mind
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If you learn to see yourself as strong and work to actualize your dreams...some of these principles can jive nicely...or, can sure help you see where to waste your time less.
The big message is don't let this board turn you Sinister.
I have found after reading a slough of depressing threads it just breeds cynicism...this is not always helpful nor will help you get to where you ultimately want to go.
Take things with a grain of salt. Make your own truths based on your experiences and your research.
jglide123
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Agreed. Guys spend entirely too much time theorizing about seduction, especially PUAs. The funny thing is, I've yet to meet a normal guy who claims to be a pick up artist. Show me a guy who is a Mystery Method practitioner, and I'll show you a weird and lonely fella....Buddha_Mind said:
Basically, I've come to realize that really all you need are social skills, basic flirting skills, and time interacting with people--women primarily--to become skilled at dealing with people/women.
Along the way, you find out what works the best for you. Most of this stuff is common sense when you really think about it.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Now, when you do unplug from the Matrix and see how you've been wrong, how "I can't believe this stupid sh!t works", you will most likely become disenchanted at some point. It's a phase of a larger process of self development, and a passing one at that.
Eventually you will realize how much power you actually have (self-actualization), and that's when life becomes really fun.
Your chances of finding a "quality woman" off the bat are almost nil. They need some semblance of malleability, but they need to be trained. By you.
PS. If you want to take a break from the "tips and techniques" and learn the CORE philosophies, I strongly suggest you read The 48 Laws of Power and The Art of Seduction (both by Robert Greene) and begin applying. It will change all aspects of your life.
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That and I reccoment book of look and how to be an alpha male. Two great books that have helped me so much.muscleman said:
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Frankly, the nuggets of useful information from that book can be found right here in this forum -- the stuff that IS practical and helps to boost your confidence, and to get yourself in good mental and physical shape.
It usually takes a while for an aspiring DJ to sift through all the information and decide what is best for himself or herself personally. Many tips and theories seem to contradict others, but in reality different tips are meant for different types of people (different personality types, different ages, different goals, etc.)
On thing is certain. I will NEVER tell someone to wear a pink feather boa and use the line "I would SO be into you if I weren't gay."
The Gambler
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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You ask a valid and good question. Probably yes. It's really like how too much theory is detrimental in science and engineering.Bossman90 said:
The more complicated the theory; the better chances of it being bull-sh!t.
Beginners tend to respect theory more than "real world experience" and that's the danger. Over-analyzing menial stuff, theorizing instead of trying can lead to eventual failure creating bitter old men, who complain about the women because they "figured out" that their theories have come to a dead end.
As long as you have a sound, simple understanding and you really try it out outside, without respecting anything a priori, you are probably on the right path.
What did Master Nimzo say? (Not Nizmo)
Theory , And Practice hold the key.
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Yeah, all this stuff is just life. I think you're better off just engaging girls in a natural way, being yourself. Unless yourself is a total raving pvssy. The point is to be bold, lose your fear, talk to the girls you're attracted to, don't be afraid to touch them, etc. Other than that, I think most of the "tips and tricks" are largely bullsh!t, even if they are based on a solid principle.csycpr said:
zekko said:
Ya know, I've been such a damn pessimist lately that I had to really stop and think about that. But nah, although I admit I'm too timid when it comes to escalation, it's a stretch to call me a "total raving pvssy." Phew, close one.
But this is where tips and stuff come sometimes come in handy: when I want to escalate and know that I should escalate and can tell that the time is right to escalate...and I still freakin don't. But this is also where too much theory just trips me up. I think "keeping it simple, stupid" would be the best principle here. (After all, it's only a girl, sheesh. lol)
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.