"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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is the promise of sex the reason why men are wusses nowadays..

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My parents are digging up old family "treasures". A lot of great old memories are unboxed. One of them is my old address book back from my puberty age. I was wondering what happened to a lot of them now. Then I ran across the girls section. It looks like i have kept the boys and girls separate in my book instead of sorting them alphabetically.

In addition to the good ol days when you have their home phones (instead of cell phones now) and getting caught by their dads (lol), I also had their addresses. Then I was thinking,my interaction to these girls was so different back then. If any of them pulled any bs crap, I'd had had ejected her immediately and moved on.

Then why did a lot men now, myself included, would sometimes bent over and suck up to a woman bs? Then I thought that what makes it different now and then was sex. Back then when you and everybody else were 14 living with their parents, you weren't trying to get sex at all. Just the fact of hanging out with girls was enough to fancy your pants.

Is it because men crave sex so much now, and it is so easy for women to give the illusion of sex (just wear a short skirt - omg one inch more I could see her pvssies!) that we just drool over them and willing to jump through hoops just to get some??
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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sharkybear said:
Why would I sometimes bent over and suck up to a woman bs? Then I thought that what makes it different now and then was sex. Back then when you and everybody else were 14 living with their parents, I wasn't trying to get sex at all. Just the fact of hanging out with girls was enough to fancy my pants.

Is it because I crave sex so much now, and it is so easy for women to give the illusion of sex (just wear a short skirt - omg one inch more I could see her pvssies!) that I just drool over them and I'm willing to jump through hoops just to get some??
FIXED

You answered your own question. Now that you know what your problem is, what are you going to do about it.
 

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The media makes "sex with a girl" out to be the ultimate form of social proof. Thus, it is over-coveted by most young men.

Kids these days need something to do.
 

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squirrels said:
The media makes "sex with a girl" out to be the ultimate form of social proof. Thus, it is over-coveted by most young men.

Kids these days need something to do.
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THIS


And also the fact that as I said many times nowadays the value of a man is measured from the quantity and quality of women around him,a pusher with girls is considered more cool than an average guy who pay his bills and does his part on society.
 
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