"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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is the promise of sex the reason why men are wusses nowadays..

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My parents are digging up old family "treasures". A lot of great old memories are unboxed. One of them is my old address book back from my puberty age. I was wondering what happened to a lot of them now. Then I ran across the girls section. It looks like i have kept the boys and girls separate in my book instead of sorting them alphabetically.

In addition to the good ol days when you have their home phones (instead of cell phones now) and getting caught by their dads (lol), I also had their addresses. Then I was thinking,my interaction to these girls was so different back then. If any of them pulled any bs crap, I'd had had ejected her immediately and moved on.

Then why did a lot men now, myself included, would sometimes bent over and suck up to a woman bs? Then I thought that what makes it different now and then was sex. Back then when you and everybody else were 14 living with their parents, you weren't trying to get sex at all. Just the fact of hanging out with girls was enough to fancy your pants.

Is it because men crave sex so much now, and it is so easy for women to give the illusion of sex (just wear a short skirt - omg one inch more I could see her pvssies!) that we just drool over them and willing to jump through hoops just to get some??
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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sharkybear said:
Why would I sometimes bent over and suck up to a woman bs? Then I thought that what makes it different now and then was sex. Back then when you and everybody else were 14 living with their parents, I wasn't trying to get sex at all. Just the fact of hanging out with girls was enough to fancy my pants.

Is it because I crave sex so much now, and it is so easy for women to give the illusion of sex (just wear a short skirt - omg one inch more I could see her pvssies!) that I just drool over them and I'm willing to jump through hoops just to get some??
FIXED

You answered your own question. Now that you know what your problem is, what are you going to do about it.
 

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The media makes "sex with a girl" out to be the ultimate form of social proof. Thus, it is over-coveted by most young men.

Kids these days need something to do.
 

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squirrels said:
The media makes "sex with a girl" out to be the ultimate form of social proof. Thus, it is over-coveted by most young men.

Kids these days need something to do.
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THIS


And also the fact that as I said many times nowadays the value of a man is measured from the quantity and quality of women around him,a pusher with girls is considered more cool than an average guy who pay his bills and does his part on society.
 
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