You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Full of rubbish pal. Iv gotten laid and had more girlfriends by texting than not texting them. Obviously if you havnt got much text game and don’t come across like it in person then you should lay off it. I have literally gone against every rule to do with texting in the past learning but I still managed to get the lay.
Any tips on good text game?
It’s hard to explain good text game I just do what i do but. In my experience they have to like your look and body starting off before you dive into the world of text game. It helps me that I workout a lot 6’3 and chilled jawline etc. But I always banter, be witty, push and pull, outright take the piss out of her, stand up to her, show her your a man not to be ****ed with she will respect you, show her I have other girls who want me via snapchat some call it preselection. Let them see your life through Snapchat helps to and if they like it they will make effort to talk a lot more. Vary response times too. Always be fun to talk to and stand out girls get a lot of messages. They pick the best ones that get them emotional on text to talk to. Girls outright tell me they like me before actually meeting up so it does help your good at texting just make sure your the same in person or it comes across as weird.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
I'd say Alexander Graham Bell would be disappointed to hear this.
There are lots of threads on text game on this forum. I would say do a search and give them a read through. To answer your question, texting is a great way to build rapport but you have to be careful with it. There is no faster way to kill attraction/mystery than texting too much.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.