MatureDJ
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Is the key to a good marriage for the wife to never say no to sex?
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
sodbuster
Master Don Juan
Not really. You'll never know if that will keep it up after the wedding. Not like a woman has ever sailed under a false flag...You need to see the personality as well....
Scaramouche
Master Don Juan
Dear MDJ,
Yes a Wife should never deny Svex if she is well....But if you move in with them they become over confident...You each connect the other with the dull boring domestic roles that are necessary in running a household...There will be conflict...best never move in together,and keep Plates spinning,else you become dependent and bored.
Yes a Wife should never deny Svex if she is well....But if you move in with them they become over confident...You each connect the other with the dull boring domestic roles that are necessary in running a household...There will be conflict...best never move in together,and keep Plates spinning,else you become dependent and bored.
And that's just it. What if.. Sex has been amazing for say.. 12 years. You got a few kids but your still finding time to be banging every now and then like u just started dating and one day your wife get a medical issue and can't sex it up for a few months. Should you/would you seek it elsewhere because she can't give it up?Scaramouche said:
Scaramouche
Master Don Juan
Dear Epimanes,
Problem is you are risking so much,I would urge caution just ride it out as best you can...If her problem becomes a permanent situation,then you will have to seriously consider new directions.
Problem is you are risking so much,I would urge caution just ride it out as best you can...If her problem becomes a permanent situation,then you will have to seriously consider new directions.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.