MatureDJ
Master Don Juan
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Is the key to a good marriage for the wife to never say no to sex?
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
sodbuster
Master Don Juan
Not really. You'll never know if that will keep it up after the wedding. Not like a woman has ever sailed under a false flag...You need to see the personality as well....
Scaramouche
Master Don Juan
Dear MDJ,
Yes a Wife should never deny Svex if she is well....But if you move in with them they become over confident...You each connect the other with the dull boring domestic roles that are necessary in running a household...There will be conflict...best never move in together,and keep Plates spinning,else you become dependent and bored.
Yes a Wife should never deny Svex if she is well....But if you move in with them they become over confident...You each connect the other with the dull boring domestic roles that are necessary in running a household...There will be conflict...best never move in together,and keep Plates spinning,else you become dependent and bored.
And that's just it. What if.. Sex has been amazing for say.. 12 years. You got a few kids but your still finding time to be banging every now and then like u just started dating and one day your wife get a medical issue and can't sex it up for a few months. Should you/would you seek it elsewhere because she can't give it up?Scaramouche said:
Scaramouche
Master Don Juan
Dear Epimanes,
Problem is you are risking so much,I would urge caution just ride it out as best you can...If her problem becomes a permanent situation,then you will have to seriously consider new directions.
Problem is you are risking so much,I would urge caution just ride it out as best you can...If her problem becomes a permanent situation,then you will have to seriously consider new directions.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.