MatureDJ
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Is the key to a good marriage for the wife to never say no to sex?
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
sodbuster
Master Don Juan
Not really. You'll never know if that will keep it up after the wedding. Not like a woman has ever sailed under a false flag...You need to see the personality as well....
Scaramouche
Master Don Juan
Dear MDJ,
Yes a Wife should never deny Svex if she is well....But if you move in with them they become over confident...You each connect the other with the dull boring domestic roles that are necessary in running a household...There will be conflict...best never move in together,and keep Plates spinning,else you become dependent and bored.
Yes a Wife should never deny Svex if she is well....But if you move in with them they become over confident...You each connect the other with the dull boring domestic roles that are necessary in running a household...There will be conflict...best never move in together,and keep Plates spinning,else you become dependent and bored.
And that's just it. What if.. Sex has been amazing for say.. 12 years. You got a few kids but your still finding time to be banging every now and then like u just started dating and one day your wife get a medical issue and can't sex it up for a few months. Should you/would you seek it elsewhere because she can't give it up?Scaramouche said:
Scaramouche
Master Don Juan
Dear Epimanes,
Problem is you are risking so much,I would urge caution just ride it out as best you can...If her problem becomes a permanent situation,then you will have to seriously consider new directions.
Problem is you are risking so much,I would urge caution just ride it out as best you can...If her problem becomes a permanent situation,then you will have to seriously consider new directions.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.