"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Is that gut feeling we get about a girl always right
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
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An example could be your gut making you feel that there is something wrong, a sense of discomfort and frustration yet you convince yourself that given enough time spent listing her bull**** and spending in drinks will make the two of you intimate.
One of the best thing I learned is that the gut is rarely wrong, while you dont smell pheromons, notice all the small facial expressions and body language, you gut does, and knows best.
Rainman4707
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Read "The dangerous passion"
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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When I think I'm killing it, be an interview or chatting up a chic I just met thinking she's feeling it, it's always wrong.
When I'm not giving a sheet, completely not putting in any effort, it works out.
Always trust your gut feeling. Know when it's on the money and when it means the complete opposite.
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