"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Is that gut feeling we get about a girl always right
- Thread starter GeoMan
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Who Dares Win
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An example could be your gut making you feel that there is something wrong, a sense of discomfort and frustration yet you convince yourself that given enough time spent listing her bull**** and spending in drinks will make the two of you intimate.
One of the best thing I learned is that the gut is rarely wrong, while you dont smell pheromons, notice all the small facial expressions and body language, you gut does, and knows best.
Rainman4707
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Read "The dangerous passion"
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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When I think I'm killing it, be an interview or chatting up a chic I just met thinking she's feeling it, it's always wrong.
When I'm not giving a sheet, completely not putting in any effort, it works out.
Always trust your gut feeling. Know when it's on the money and when it means the complete opposite.
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