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She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Is that a good example of ****y and funny?

Shivastorm_88

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A girl was telling me how her soccer team won the game 8-1, and then she told me (obviously really proud) that she scored the first goal. So me instead of congratulating her and all, I just playfully made fun of her for only scoring one goal.

Is that mostly what ****y and funny is all about?
 

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NickBe

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Lay off the ****y+funny it is a myth perpetrated by David Deangelo that doesn't really work unless you are going for 15 year old girls or women with the mentality of a 15 year old.

****y = Obnoxious

****y = Annoying

****y = Clown

Try confident+funny sure you can poke fun at a girl every know and then but you do not want to do it from a ****y perspective. More like if she does or says something dumb you make fun of her for it. Obviously you never carry it to far.

I am not saying that making fun of her one goal isn't ok but do not do it from a ****y perspective and do not carry it on too far.
 

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Learn what c/f is really about. At it's core it's about how you project yourself and not about putting other people down like neg-hits. This is what causes guys so much trouble. You can be ****y(confident) and funny without putting other people down.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Snow Plowman said:
Huge miscalibration, this girl was proud that she scored the first goal and you basically started busting on her for no reason. Instead why couldn't you just be proud for her?
My personal experience is in perfect harmony with these replies. C+F is useful in RARE, RARE circumstances in the personal style that I like and works best for me. For the most part, it is obnoxious to women. I try to be loving and funny, or humble and funny, or even better, just drop funny and focus on humble and interesting, or loving and interesting. Now that is something worth aiming for.

Actually, the person I neg-hit the most is myself... not in a negative way, just playfully.

Very, very few people know how to be interesting. Jokes can only get you so far, in my experience. Being interesting, building a profound connection, that's all you need. Even working out for women is a waste of time if you have personality skills like that.

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Snow Plowman said:
Huge miscalibration, this girl was proud that she scored the first goal and you basically started busting on her for no reason. Instead why couldn't you just be proud for her?
:up:
 

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Yeah, thats a good example of CF... Another thing I might have said is wow, you scored a goal I'm guessin this is the first one you made this season? If its later on in the season then I would have said that.. Or jokingly been like yeah ur the star player in a sarcastic tone of voice!
 
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