Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Is she worth it?

seek&destroy

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I told a girl that I like her, but she said that she wasn't interested in me in that way. She said she still wanted me as a friend. About 2 weeks after that, she started ditching me, and i was the only one who could see it. I asked her about it and she denied it, but I knew that she was lying. Just yesterday she ditched me and my (female) friend at school. We are both very pissed off with her, but I figured that if I don't show it, I will be much better off than if I do. What should I do with her? Is it worth keeping her in my life? Personally, I don't think so because she is too much of a liar. Another one of my girl friends talked to this girl yesterday, and she said that I am not a problem in her life, basically transfering all the weight to the girl that was with me when we got ditched. I know she is lying. What should I do?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Give her space (ie: live life without her). If she's lying about ditching you when she obvisously is, she needs to lose you to have it click..sometimes.

Just don't count on her always coming back.
 

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Originally posted by JC Jerkson
She's not interested. Move on and find new ones. They're everywhere.


JC
Why would you just tell a girl "I like you" (Most likely you sounded real serious about it and meant it)

Come on man thats the afc way around things i could have understand if you were playing around saying something like that, but to actually say "I like you" its just giving her the option to say no.
 

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Originally posted by seek&destroy
I told a girl that I like her, but she said that she wasn't interested in me in that way.
Tell her "You don't have a choice. We're gonna go make-out and then we're going to express our love to each other physically."

..Then start cackling madly.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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