"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Is she worth it?

seek&destroy

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I told a girl that I like her, but she said that she wasn't interested in me in that way. She said she still wanted me as a friend. About 2 weeks after that, she started ditching me, and i was the only one who could see it. I asked her about it and she denied it, but I knew that she was lying. Just yesterday she ditched me and my (female) friend at school. We are both very pissed off with her, but I figured that if I don't show it, I will be much better off than if I do. What should I do with her? Is it worth keeping her in my life? Personally, I don't think so because she is too much of a liar. Another one of my girl friends talked to this girl yesterday, and she said that I am not a problem in her life, basically transfering all the weight to the girl that was with me when we got ditched. I know she is lying. What should I do?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Give her space (ie: live life without her). If she's lying about ditching you when she obvisously is, she needs to lose you to have it click..sometimes.

Just don't count on her always coming back.
 

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Originally posted by JC Jerkson
She's not interested. Move on and find new ones. They're everywhere.


JC
Why would you just tell a girl "I like you" (Most likely you sounded real serious about it and meant it)

Come on man thats the afc way around things i could have understand if you were playing around saying something like that, but to actually say "I like you" its just giving her the option to say no.
 

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Originally posted by seek&destroy
I told a girl that I like her, but she said that she wasn't interested in me in that way.
Tell her "You don't have a choice. We're gonna go make-out and then we're going to express our love to each other physically."

..Then start cackling madly.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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