"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I cannot tell for the life of me if this chick is still into me or not. She is not an easy one to figure out. We went out 3 times and she was tellin me how she felt so comfortable around me and she said we really clicked and had good chemistry. She was texting me every day for no reason, being really sweet and crap.
Then i made the bonehad move of askin if she was still seeing other guys on match.com where we met. She told me she met one since me, and that she wants to take thigns slow before declaring any titles. Since then shes been a bit cold and hardly contacts me at all, not even on aim. But now i ignored her a couple days(meaning no AIM messages, and no texts or calls) and she called me last night to tell me she had a "crazy!" story for me. I have a feelin the story was made up cuz it doesnt seem logical at all. Could she have just made it up so shed have a reason to talk to me? She seems like she has a lot of pride, thats why i kinda suspect that. She prob didnt wanan call just to say hello cuz then id know she liked me or watver. Do girls think like that? I dunno bout this one, my gut feeling tells me i scared her away a little by hinting at become exlusive after only 3 dates. I know that was retarted and deserve a beatdown for stupidity but I cant go back in time and change it unfortunately. I think she is genuinely into me tho and now she just feels tentative about coming on too strong cuz then she thinks ill wanna be exclusive right away. Could that be it? And do girls make stupid calls like that just to hear our voice? I wonder
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Francisco d'Anconia said:
For a person with the appropriate knowledge anything is possible. How much of the site/forum have you studied?
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I was a lurker for a long time on this board,then i dated a girl for a yr, got dumped and came back. Decided to start posting a few months ago. I read alot of the quick tips and stuff. never read the bible. I find that this site helped me alot last yr, i used it when i met my ex gf, and she pretty much asked me out. But i dunno i feel like i know all the righ tthigns to do and not to do, but i cant stop myself from messing up. Why on earth did i ask her if she wasseein other match guys, i thoguht it would come across as playful and cute. i just looked like a loser askin her that.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Francisco d'Anconia said:
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I'm not even into getting laid, this girl is just different. I am def not that experienced for my age - 25. But ive had some gf's and been on a lot of dates, and this one is by far the best i've clicked with and she isnt even that good looking, just cute. maybe this site isnt the site for me, since i dont really car ebout gettin in her pants, i just want a relationship wit her.
 
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DJinTraining06 said:
I was a lurker for a long time on this board,then i dated a girl for a yr, got dumped and came back. Decided to start posting a few months ago. I read alot of the quick tips and stuff. never read the bible. I find that this site helped me alot last yr, i used it when i met my ex gf, and she pretty much asked me out. But i dunno i feel like i know all the righ tthigns to do and not to do, but i cant stop myself from messing up. Why on earth did i ask her if she wasseein other match guys, i thoguht it would come across as playful and cute. i just looked like a loser askin her that.
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Read the bible and go through a boot camp.
 
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