"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Is she still interested?

DJinTraining06

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I cannot tell for the life of me if this chick is still into me or not. She is not an easy one to figure out. We went out 3 times and she was tellin me how she felt so comfortable around me and she said we really clicked and had good chemistry. She was texting me every day for no reason, being really sweet and crap.
Then i made the bonehad move of askin if she was still seeing other guys on match.com where we met. She told me she met one since me, and that she wants to take thigns slow before declaring any titles. Since then shes been a bit cold and hardly contacts me at all, not even on aim. But now i ignored her a couple days(meaning no AIM messages, and no texts or calls) and she called me last night to tell me she had a "crazy!" story for me. I have a feelin the story was made up cuz it doesnt seem logical at all. Could she have just made it up so shed have a reason to talk to me? She seems like she has a lot of pride, thats why i kinda suspect that. She prob didnt wanan call just to say hello cuz then id know she liked me or watver. Do girls think like that? I dunno bout this one, my gut feeling tells me i scared her away a little by hinting at become exlusive after only 3 dates. I know that was retarted and deserve a beatdown for stupidity but I cant go back in time and change it unfortunately. I think she is genuinely into me tho and now she just feels tentative about coming on too strong cuz then she thinks ill wanna be exclusive right away. Could that be it? And do girls make stupid calls like that just to hear our voice? I wonder
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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How much of this site/forum have you studied?
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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DJinTraining06

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Francisco d'Anconia said:
For a person with the appropriate knowledge anything is possible. How much of the site/forum have you studied?

I was a lurker for a long time on this board,then i dated a girl for a yr, got dumped and came back. Decided to start posting a few months ago. I read alot of the quick tips and stuff. never read the bible. I find that this site helped me alot last yr, i used it when i met my ex gf, and she pretty much asked me out. But i dunno i feel like i know all the righ tthigns to do and not to do, but i cant stop myself from messing up. Why on earth did i ask her if she wasseein other match guys, i thoguht it would come across as playful and cute. i just looked like a loser askin her that.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

Read more...

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Francisco d'Anconia said:
For a person with the appropriate knowledge anything is possible. How much of the site/forum have you studied?

I'm not even into getting laid, this girl is just different. I am def not that experienced for my age - 25. But ive had some gf's and been on a lot of dates, and this one is by far the best i've clicked with and she isnt even that good looking, just cute. maybe this site isnt the site for me, since i dont really car ebout gettin in her pants, i just want a relationship wit her.
 

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DJinTraining06 said:
I was a lurker for a long time on this board,then i dated a girl for a yr, got dumped and came back. Decided to start posting a few months ago. I read alot of the quick tips and stuff. never read the bible. I find that this site helped me alot last yr, i used it when i met my ex gf, and she pretty much asked me out. But i dunno i feel like i know all the righ tthigns to do and not to do, but i cant stop myself from messing up. Why on earth did i ask her if she wasseein other match guys, i thoguht it would come across as playful and cute. i just looked like a loser askin her that.
Read the bible and go through a boot camp.
 
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