"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Is she monkey branching?

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Ok so I have a co worker that I have banged in the past for a little bit and things just fizzled out. So it's been like over a year since we have hooked up she's initiated contact a few times during that break and I just ignore her. So now recently she's been really aggressive so I hung out with her. Thing is I heard she had a bf like less than a week ago as well. So we hung out out her house slept in the same bed but no sex alot of touching and feeling but she didn't want anything past that. So is that out of guilt that she has a bf? Maybe they recently broke up..... but her not wanting sex when we have in the past has me really thrown off.



Sorry for the blocky text I'm on a ****ty phone.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Maybe things are rocky with her and the BF and she needs to know that she's still wanted in case the ship sinks. Either way I wouldn't entertain that. I'd tell her to hit you up when she means business.
 
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jaymbrs said:
Maybe things are rocky with her and the BF and she needs to know that she's still wanted in case the ship sinks. Either way I wouldn't entertain that. I'd tell her to hit you up when she means business.
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That's what I figure she's just wanting to have someone to monkey branch to after their officially done.
 
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Yep. I’m with jaymbrs. She’s testing to see if you will still take her if she flattens the guy.
Either she wants to suk n fuk or she doesn’t.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I don't know if she's monkey branching...usually youd do more than just over the clothes stuff. Sounds to me like she just wants validation from another man without feeling like a total "slut." Did you try and have sex with her? Did you previously have sex with her?
 
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SoSuave666 said:
I don't know if she's monkey branching...usually youd do more than just over the clothes stuff. Sounds to me like she just wants validation from another man without feeling like a total "slut." Did you try and have sex with her? Did you previously have sex with her?
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Yeah we where pretty much **** buddies for a while
 
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She’s casting a line. I think that’s the first step in any monkey branch. I always assume that any chick I’m dealing with has multiple lines cast and is waiting for a nibble. You guys were f buddies.... she’s now trying to change the dynamics and make you work for it. If you want to keep being f buddies I wouldn’t reach back out to her. Let her reach out to you..,. Then I would joke about that being my first sleep over since 3rd grade. You call the shots and don’t let her play games with you!
 
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Way to drop the ball OP and reinforce her idea of total abundance when you could have continued to shut her down and maybe, just maybe, got her to start considering other people and consequences of her actions.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Invite her over to your place for dinner. Make it really easy for sex to happen in a covert way. Afterall, you have banged her before it's just been a while.

If she declines simply go back to ignoring her and hit up other chicks.

Pro tip: if you've banged a woman previously, waste no time in getting her to come over. This brings her back into YOUR frame and doesnt allow her to suck you into her's with some "I'm looking for a relationship " bullshyte.
 
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