"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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hottiedoggie

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Guys, im back. I made up my mind that im not going to do anything about her until the end of my national exams, which is the end of this year. I have one more final question.

Apparently she found out that some girl likes/liked me and asked me about it, after telling my side of the story, she was quite sad that i did not tell her about it, which i replied saying that she dont tell me about her relationship and i feel that she should do it before i start opening up.

Your opinion of this?
 

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hottiedoggie said:
Guys, im back. I made up my mind that im not going to do anything about her until the end of my national exams, which is the end of this year. I have one more final question.

Apparently she found out that some girl likes/liked me and asked me about it, after telling my side of the story, she was quite sad that i did not tell her about it, which i replied saying that she dont tell me about her relationship and i feel that she should do it before i start opening up.

Your opinion of this?
Well man. Think of the bright side of this--she can start vowing for your attention more since she begin to think she has 'competition'. That's a good thing. I think some unexpected positives can come out of this dilemma. We'll have to wait and see of course.
 
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