"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Is she interested?

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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hottiedoggie

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Guys, im back. I made up my mind that im not going to do anything about her until the end of my national exams, which is the end of this year. I have one more final question.

Apparently she found out that some girl likes/liked me and asked me about it, after telling my side of the story, she was quite sad that i did not tell her about it, which i replied saying that she dont tell me about her relationship and i feel that she should do it before i start opening up.

Your opinion of this?
 

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hottiedoggie said:
Guys, im back. I made up my mind that im not going to do anything about her until the end of my national exams, which is the end of this year. I have one more final question.

Apparently she found out that some girl likes/liked me and asked me about it, after telling my side of the story, she was quite sad that i did not tell her about it, which i replied saying that she dont tell me about her relationship and i feel that she should do it before i start opening up.

Your opinion of this?
Well man. Think of the bright side of this--she can start vowing for your attention more since she begin to think she has 'competition'. That's a good thing. I think some unexpected positives can come out of this dilemma. We'll have to wait and see of course.
 
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