"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Is she interested?

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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hottiedoggie

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Guys, im back. I made up my mind that im not going to do anything about her until the end of my national exams, which is the end of this year. I have one more final question.

Apparently she found out that some girl likes/liked me and asked me about it, after telling my side of the story, she was quite sad that i did not tell her about it, which i replied saying that she dont tell me about her relationship and i feel that she should do it before i start opening up.

Your opinion of this?
 

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hottiedoggie said:
Guys, im back. I made up my mind that im not going to do anything about her until the end of my national exams, which is the end of this year. I have one more final question.

Apparently she found out that some girl likes/liked me and asked me about it, after telling my side of the story, she was quite sad that i did not tell her about it, which i replied saying that she dont tell me about her relationship and i feel that she should do it before i start opening up.

Your opinion of this?
Well man. Think of the bright side of this--she can start vowing for your attention more since she begin to think she has 'competition'. That's a good thing. I think some unexpected positives can come out of this dilemma. We'll have to wait and see of course.
 
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