"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Is she interested?

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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hottiedoggie

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Guys, im back. I made up my mind that im not going to do anything about her until the end of my national exams, which is the end of this year. I have one more final question.

Apparently she found out that some girl likes/liked me and asked me about it, after telling my side of the story, she was quite sad that i did not tell her about it, which i replied saying that she dont tell me about her relationship and i feel that she should do it before i start opening up.

Your opinion of this?
 

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hottiedoggie said:
Guys, im back. I made up my mind that im not going to do anything about her until the end of my national exams, which is the end of this year. I have one more final question.

Apparently she found out that some girl likes/liked me and asked me about it, after telling my side of the story, she was quite sad that i did not tell her about it, which i replied saying that she dont tell me about her relationship and i feel that she should do it before i start opening up.

Your opinion of this?
Well man. Think of the bright side of this--she can start vowing for your attention more since she begin to think she has 'competition'. That's a good thing. I think some unexpected positives can come out of this dilemma. We'll have to wait and see of course.
 
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