"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Is She in Love with You? (Cosmo quiz)

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Here is an interesting quiz that shows the variables that women consider the difference makers in the men they date.

1) What's worse, being single or dating someone you don't click with?
2) When people bring up your boyfriend and how amazing he is and how blessed you are, you...?
3) Suppose your guy suddenly lost his job or started balding, does it matter?
4) What do people say about the two of you?
5) Do you ever hold back when talking about your your guy to your friends?
6) Supposed it ended tomorrow. What would you really be more upset about?
7) How does it get when you guys are alone together for a really long time?
8) Have you ever played single for a night (or wanted to just for fun)?
9) You have a date with your boyfriend tonight. How do you feel about it?
10) What do your friends think when you ask them about the two of you?
11) Do you ever brag about your boyfriend to other people?
12) Has sex ever felt like a chore?

Possible outcomes: In Love, Forcing it

http://www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love/a26962/cosmo-quiz-are-you-in-love-or-forcing-it/
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Wow great way to plant doubt ... imagine if a male's magazine askmen do you ever fantasize about sleeping with other women? Must not be in love
I would consider anyone who spends their time on things like cosmo and other pop culture garbage to be a red flag in the first place.
 

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Not sure if it reminds me the laws of a third world country that conflicts with each other or a computer in which 4 different types of antivirus are installed.
 

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Who cares...
If you are banging the ****ake out of her and being a leader in your relationship she will be in love with you.

If you have to ask cosmo whether you are in love I am going to guess that you probably aren't.
 

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Notice that half the questions involve what here friends and what others think? This is completely accurate when it comes to women. They care a great deal about what their friends think because women gain status from the men they are dating. If she doesn't think her status is better with you, you better be a beast in bed and make her tingle.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Notice that half the questions involve what here friends and what others think? This is completely accurate when it comes to women. They care a great deal about what their friends think because women gain status from the men they are dating. If she doesn't think her status is better with you, you better be a beast in bed and make her tingle.
Exactly. Until she can talk to her friends about you and they can agree, her opinion of you remains in limbo. I'm fairly certain I've never picked up a girl whose friends didn't approve of me.
 

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I don't think it needs to be her friends. She just needs to know other women find you attractive.
 
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