"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Is She in Love with You? (Cosmo quiz)

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Here is an interesting quiz that shows the variables that women consider the difference makers in the men they date.

1) What's worse, being single or dating someone you don't click with?
2) When people bring up your boyfriend and how amazing he is and how blessed you are, you...?
3) Suppose your guy suddenly lost his job or started balding, does it matter?
4) What do people say about the two of you?
5) Do you ever hold back when talking about your your guy to your friends?
6) Supposed it ended tomorrow. What would you really be more upset about?
7) How does it get when you guys are alone together for a really long time?
8) Have you ever played single for a night (or wanted to just for fun)?
9) You have a date with your boyfriend tonight. How do you feel about it?
10) What do your friends think when you ask them about the two of you?
11) Do you ever brag about your boyfriend to other people?
12) Has sex ever felt like a chore?

Possible outcomes: In Love, Forcing it

http://www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love/a26962/cosmo-quiz-are-you-in-love-or-forcing-it/
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Wow great way to plant doubt ... imagine if a male's magazine askmen do you ever fantasize about sleeping with other women? Must not be in love
I would consider anyone who spends their time on things like cosmo and other pop culture garbage to be a red flag in the first place.
 

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Not sure if it reminds me the laws of a third world country that conflicts with each other or a computer in which 4 different types of antivirus are installed.
 

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Who cares...
If you are banging the ****ake out of her and being a leader in your relationship she will be in love with you.

If you have to ask cosmo whether you are in love I am going to guess that you probably aren't.
 

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Notice that half the questions involve what here friends and what others think? This is completely accurate when it comes to women. They care a great deal about what their friends think because women gain status from the men they are dating. If she doesn't think her status is better with you, you better be a beast in bed and make her tingle.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Notice that half the questions involve what here friends and what others think? This is completely accurate when it comes to women. They care a great deal about what their friends think because women gain status from the men they are dating. If she doesn't think her status is better with you, you better be a beast in bed and make her tingle.
Exactly. Until she can talk to her friends about you and they can agree, her opinion of you remains in limbo. I'm fairly certain I've never picked up a girl whose friends didn't approve of me.
 

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I don't think it needs to be her friends. She just needs to know other women find you attractive.
 
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