"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Is she concerned as a friend or just guilty?

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Bagofnuts

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So I've been no contact with my ex for nearly 3 months.
Recently i got really drunk, cant remember **** but i was left alone and my ex's best friend saw me and i was yelling for my ex and saying i miss her and ****, and she told her about how drunk i was etc.
My ex then proceeded to contact my sister on facebook asking if i was home and if i was ok, thats it. And this was 2 weeks ago
Why did she do that ? And should i just ignore ? Because i heard from her ****ed up best friend shes seeing someone new

She dumped me on my birthday *
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Don't mind her. Whatever she'll do isn't gonna help, even if it is going back to see you. You'll miss opportunities if you stick your thoughts to that girl. Stay far from it and come back at life stronger and wiser.
 
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Mmmmm isnt gonna help me get over her ?
I still have feelings for her tho, sadly.
 
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Bagofnuts said:
Mmmmm isnt gonna help me get over her ?
I still have feelings for her tho, sadly.
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That's right. There is nothing she can do to help you get over your problem. I have read somewhere that it's easy to act alpha when you're in a relationship, but it is in times like this that you get to see what you're truly made of. Now is that time for you. Build yourself into something else. Find your passion and go meet some new girls.
 
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So the right thing to do would be to get over her by continuing my no contact and just meet new chicks
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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