"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Is she concerned as a friend or just guilty?

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So I've been no contact with my ex for nearly 3 months.
Recently i got really drunk, cant remember **** but i was left alone and my ex's best friend saw me and i was yelling for my ex and saying i miss her and ****, and she told her about how drunk i was etc.
My ex then proceeded to contact my sister on facebook asking if i was home and if i was ok, thats it. And this was 2 weeks ago
Why did she do that ? And should i just ignore ? Because i heard from her ****ed up best friend shes seeing someone new

She dumped me on my birthday *
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Don't mind her. Whatever she'll do isn't gonna help, even if it is going back to see you. You'll miss opportunities if you stick your thoughts to that girl. Stay far from it and come back at life stronger and wiser.
 
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Mmmmm isnt gonna help me get over her ?
I still have feelings for her tho, sadly.
 
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Bagofnuts said:
Mmmmm isnt gonna help me get over her ?
I still have feelings for her tho, sadly.
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That's right. There is nothing she can do to help you get over your problem. I have read somewhere that it's easy to act alpha when you're in a relationship, but it is in times like this that you get to see what you're truly made of. Now is that time for you. Build yourself into something else. Find your passion and go meet some new girls.
 
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So the right thing to do would be to get over her by continuing my no contact and just meet new chicks
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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