"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Is she concerned as a friend or just guilty?

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Bagofnuts

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So I've been no contact with my ex for nearly 3 months.
Recently i got really drunk, cant remember **** but i was left alone and my ex's best friend saw me and i was yelling for my ex and saying i miss her and ****, and she told her about how drunk i was etc.
My ex then proceeded to contact my sister on facebook asking if i was home and if i was ok, thats it. And this was 2 weeks ago
Why did she do that ? And should i just ignore ? Because i heard from her ****ed up best friend shes seeing someone new

She dumped me on my birthday *
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Don't mind her. Whatever she'll do isn't gonna help, even if it is going back to see you. You'll miss opportunities if you stick your thoughts to that girl. Stay far from it and come back at life stronger and wiser.
 
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Mmmmm isnt gonna help me get over her ?
I still have feelings for her tho, sadly.
 
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Bagofnuts said:
Mmmmm isnt gonna help me get over her ?
I still have feelings for her tho, sadly.
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That's right. There is nothing she can do to help you get over your problem. I have read somewhere that it's easy to act alpha when you're in a relationship, but it is in times like this that you get to see what you're truly made of. Now is that time for you. Build yourself into something else. Find your passion and go meet some new girls.
 
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So the right thing to do would be to get over her by continuing my no contact and just meet new chicks
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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