"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Is she becoming attached too fast?

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I'm Joe Dirt

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I've been going out with this girl (she is now my girlfriend) for about 2 or so weeks. It's the 3rd week now.

She is a very shy girl, the librarian introverted type. On our first date she wouldn't really even touch me and from her body language I could tell she didn't want to be touched either. Eventually we held hands the next time we went out, then she came over and we made out, and from there she got pretty touchy feely.

So I think she is being broken in.

But like today she showed up at my job and gave me a flower (it was a small flower) but didn't stay long since she was going to be late for work herself.

She calls me pretty much everyday, I never really have to call her anymore.

Is she becoming attached too fast? Cause to me it feels like she might be. Any advice on what to expect from this point on?
 

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I am enjoying myself, but I don't want to like get married anytime soon and while its exciting to be in a relationship its also kind of scary. I haven't been in a relationship since discovering the community.

Um, she was engaged before she said and was with that guy for four years, so yes I would say she was heartbroken before.
 
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Some get attached quickly, some take months. The next girl (if there is a next one, you stud, heh heh) could be the complete opposite. I agree with GGTW here and go with the flow, except keep in mind the guideline about trickle-feeding yourself to her. Don't tell her your whole life story just yet. I mean, how fast do you want things to move? You are in control. Forget the girl and her feelings for a minute...what does your personality dictate in this situation?

All said and done, if it ain't broken, don't fix it.
 
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