"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Is she becoming attached too fast?

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I'm Joe Dirt

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I've been going out with this girl (she is now my girlfriend) for about 2 or so weeks. It's the 3rd week now.

She is a very shy girl, the librarian introverted type. On our first date she wouldn't really even touch me and from her body language I could tell she didn't want to be touched either. Eventually we held hands the next time we went out, then she came over and we made out, and from there she got pretty touchy feely.

So I think she is being broken in.

But like today she showed up at my job and gave me a flower (it was a small flower) but didn't stay long since she was going to be late for work herself.

She calls me pretty much everyday, I never really have to call her anymore.

Is she becoming attached too fast? Cause to me it feels like she might be. Any advice on what to expect from this point on?
 

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Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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I am enjoying myself, but I don't want to like get married anytime soon and while its exciting to be in a relationship its also kind of scary. I haven't been in a relationship since discovering the community.

Um, she was engaged before she said and was with that guy for four years, so yes I would say she was heartbroken before.
 
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Some get attached quickly, some take months. The next girl (if there is a next one, you stud, heh heh) could be the complete opposite. I agree with GGTW here and go with the flow, except keep in mind the guideline about trickle-feeding yourself to her. Don't tell her your whole life story just yet. I mean, how fast do you want things to move? You are in control. Forget the girl and her feelings for a minute...what does your personality dictate in this situation?

All said and done, if it ain't broken, don't fix it.
 
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