"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Zarky

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Gotta chill the **** out, OP. Girl is a freak, and that's fine. But I can't imagine why you'd find yourself "having feelings for her" unless you have absolutely no other options in life.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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f@ck the feelings guys.... i just want to keep her around so i can carry out some fantasies & treat her like the slut she is

but... she has dropped off the radar... and i need advice how to proceed forward.

she phoned me on monday morning & wanted a favour off me... i couldn't do the favour for her & i have not heard from her since

i don't understand why she has vanished, as she was showing very high interest level...

these are some reasons why i think she might have dropped off the radar!


she said she was feeling ill a couple of days ago, because she has some problems with her neck... she could be in hospital etc??

she may have lost my number?

she is f@cking some other dude?

she isn't sure about seeing me anymore?

or she is playing f@cking games & waiting for me to come chasing her?

i was thinking about ringing her, make sure she is not ill or isn't in the hospital... if she is okay, then i send her a text and dump her ass, for ignoring me and playing games


she has gone ghost... so how do i proceed? she is defo not for a relationship, but would not mind keeping her around for sex
 

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JohnnyStorm said:
Did she volunteer this information? Please tell me she got out a notepad and started entering in what she thought of your "performance" :D
She actually did volunteer it.lol And he!! no we never met or exchanged numbers. She started out by going on and on about how guys had screwed her over and just wanted sex and she was looking for a nice guy and was not going to have sex til she got married. So I asked her how many guys had she banged off pof. I was expecting like 5,6,7 something like that. She came back with 39:crazy: Then she went on to tell me how low it made her feel after each time she banged one and how she was only banging so many because she had recently gotten a divorce. Oh and this girl was only 23.lol

People ask me why I'm not married. Maybe I should give this example and see their reaction.haha
 

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any ideas what i should do from here on guys???


01) try to rope her back in, so i can keep banging her?

02) or send her a text and dump her ass?

she has ignored me for 2 days now, think she is pizzed off baout something... i,m not sure of her reasons... but i think i should cut this one loose


i wouldn't mind carrying on seeing her just for the sex, as the sex is great... but she has proven to be unreliable & could be worse trouble ahead
 

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Girls that come on fast, leave even faster. That's a golden rule I learned in Stripperville. You need to strike while the iron is hot. File this away for next time.

Mentally healthy people don't function like this one just did. She wants to suck you in by being exxxtra sechsual and tell you everything you want to hear before she pulls off her mask and reveals her crazy a$$ she tries to keep under wraps.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Orbion I have bad news, whether you want to admit it or not, you have feelings for her. Otherwise you wouldn't be this concerned about her. You're freaking out over her ignoring you for 2 days (really?) and asking if you should "dump" her. You're complaining she's unreliable. Get a hold of yourself. This is a plate you're talking about, who gives a sh*t.

As has been said several times already, this woman is a sl*t who is good for nothing but sex. She is going to disappoint you if you expect anything else... it sounds like you're already disappointed. Stop.

There is no "what if..." in this situation. She's not an exception. Stop treating her like she's might be the one. Use all this time and energy you're spending trying to get with her to get other plates. Immediately.
 

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Robert28 said:
She actually did volunteer it.lol And he!! no we never met or exchanged numbers. She started out by going on and on about how guys had screwed her over and just wanted sex and she was looking for a nice guy and was not going to have sex til she got married. So I asked her how many guys had she banged off pof. I was expecting like 5,6,7 something like that. She came back with 39:crazy: Then she went on to tell me how low it made her feel after each time she banged one and how she was only banging so many because she had recently gotten a divorce. Oh and this girl was only 23.lol

People ask me why I'm not married. Maybe I should give this example and see their reaction.haha
Everytime people tell me I am crazy....

I WILL THINK OF THIS

Ba-Boing buddy !
 
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