"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Is She A total POF Slut?
- Thread starter orbion2013
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
orbion2013
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but... she has dropped off the radar... and i need advice how to proceed forward.
she phoned me on monday morning & wanted a favour off me... i couldn't do the favour for her & i have not heard from her since
i don't understand why she has vanished, as she was showing very high interest level...
these are some reasons why i think she might have dropped off the radar!
she said she was feeling ill a couple of days ago, because she has some problems with her neck... she could be in hospital etc??
she may have lost my number?
she is f@cking some other dude?
she isn't sure about seeing me anymore?
or she is playing f@cking games & waiting for me to come chasing her?
i was thinking about ringing her, make sure she is not ill or isn't in the hospital... if she is okay, then i send her a text and dump her ass, for ignoring me and playing games
she has gone ghost... so how do i proceed? she is defo not for a relationship, but would not mind keeping her around for sex
She actually did volunteer it.lol And he!! no we never met or exchanged numbers. She started out by going on and on about how guys had screwed her over and just wanted sex and she was looking for a nice guy and was not going to have sex til she got married. So I asked her how many guys had she banged off pof. I was expecting like 5,6,7 something like that. She came back with 39:crazy: Then she went on to tell me how low it made her feel after each time she banged one and how she was only banging so many because she had recently gotten a divorce. Oh and this girl was only 23.lolJohnnyStorm said:Did she volunteer this information? Please tell me she got out a notepad and started entering in what she thought of your "performance"
People ask me why I'm not married. Maybe I should give this example and see their reaction.haha
orbion2013
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01) try to rope her back in, so i can keep banging her?
02) or send her a text and dump her ass?
she has ignored me for 2 days now, think she is pizzed off baout something... i,m not sure of her reasons... but i think i should cut this one loose
i wouldn't mind carrying on seeing her just for the sex, as the sex is great... but she has proven to be unreliable & could be worse trouble ahead
The Duke
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Mentally healthy people don't function like this one just did. She wants to suck you in by being exxxtra sechsual and tell you everything you want to hear before she pulls off her mask and reveals her crazy a$$ she tries to keep under wraps.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
As has been said several times already, this woman is a sl*t who is good for nothing but sex. She is going to disappoint you if you expect anything else... it sounds like you're already disappointed. Stop.
There is no "what if..." in this situation. She's not an exception. Stop treating her like she's might be the one. Use all this time and energy you're spending trying to get with her to get other plates. Immediately.
[S]alvatore
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countwoofoolah
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Everytime people tell me I am crazy....Robert28 said:
I WILL THINK OF THIS
Ba-Boing buddy !