"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Is she a fake?

ikonik

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Just started talking to this girl from POF. She took seven days to respond to my first message because she said she's in London until the 1st. She suggested we text after a few messages. I said we should go for a coffee date next weekend but she won't be able to until after she gets back and that she would like to then if the offer still stands. I tried to get her on a call and she said that would be nice but it never happened.

I did a google image reverse search and one of her pictures did come up. Which kind of has me concerned. But I tried her other ones and they passed. She has a fb but she never uses it so it's pretty empty. Her profile seems authentic with a pretty realistic description. She also has a google voice instead of her real number. So should I be concerned she's a scam? I'm not sure.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I would just wait and see if she hits you up when she gets back. You made the date offer. Tell her to let you know when she is back and free and you can set something up and find out.
 

ikonik

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I would just wait and see if she hits you up when she gets back. You made the date offer. Tell her to let you know when she is back and free and you can set something up and find out.
Ok. I suggested again that we talk tonight she said she can talk after she gets off work. She said she can also chat during the day but I'm not free then. This kind of made me less skeptical because I feel like a scammer would make some excuse not to talk at all.
 
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