"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Is she a fake?

ikonik

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Just started talking to this girl from POF. She took seven days to respond to my first message because she said she's in London until the 1st. She suggested we text after a few messages. I said we should go for a coffee date next weekend but she won't be able to until after she gets back and that she would like to then if the offer still stands. I tried to get her on a call and she said that would be nice but it never happened.

I did a google image reverse search and one of her pictures did come up. Which kind of has me concerned. But I tried her other ones and they passed. She has a fb but she never uses it so it's pretty empty. Her profile seems authentic with a pretty realistic description. She also has a google voice instead of her real number. So should I be concerned she's a scam? I'm not sure.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Glassguy

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I would just wait and see if she hits you up when she gets back. You made the date offer. Tell her to let you know when she is back and free and you can set something up and find out.
 

ikonik

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I would just wait and see if she hits you up when she gets back. You made the date offer. Tell her to let you know when she is back and free and you can set something up and find out.
Ok. I suggested again that we talk tonight she said she can talk after she gets off work. She said she can also chat during the day but I'm not free then. This kind of made me less skeptical because I feel like a scammer would make some excuse not to talk at all.
 
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