"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Is sexual dis-satisfaction make you more motivated or less

evan12

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Do you feel you are more active and motivited when you have a sexual partner or less ?
I feel I am loosing my motivation (kind of depression) when I dont have sex for a while .
could be that is why a lot of guys playing video games , because they lost motivation in life ?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Yes it is depressing to lay beside a woman every night who is too stubborn to "give it up". I was in that boat with a control freak. Not long ago we had toyed w/ the idea of sex that evening, around 8-ish. We were watching TV and she kept wanting to watch it. Around 1:00, I asked if we were gonna have game tonight, she says I got 2 more shows to watch. I rolled over and went to sleep. Yeah she's a real blast. I put up with her for my kids basically, cause they wouldn't grow up worth a d*mn around her and her friends, but I'm done now.
 

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I dont have sex partner now , but I do understand you , if you google "sexless marriage" you will find good blogs about your situation, did you try to tease her by masturbating , one of the reasons that women hold sex (beside they dont love him ) is to gain control over him , but when you masturbate then she feel she don't have control over you .
 
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