"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

Read more...

Is sexual dis-satisfaction make you more motivated or less

evan12

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jun 2, 2012
Messages
1,371
Reaction score
313
Do you feel you are more active and motivited when you have a sexual partner or less ?
I feel I am loosing my motivation (kind of depression) when I dont have sex for a while .
could be that is why a lot of guys playing video games , because they lost motivation in life ?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

Read more...

glass half full

Master Don Juan
Joined
Nov 2, 2012
Messages
894
Reaction score
285
Yes it is depressing to lay beside a woman every night who is too stubborn to "give it up". I was in that boat with a control freak. Not long ago we had toyed w/ the idea of sex that evening, around 8-ish. We were watching TV and she kept wanting to watch it. Around 1:00, I asked if we were gonna have game tonight, she says I got 2 more shows to watch. I rolled over and went to sleep. Yeah she's a real blast. I put up with her for my kids basically, cause they wouldn't grow up worth a d*mn around her and her friends, but I'm done now.
 

evan12

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jun 2, 2012
Messages
1,371
Reaction score
313
I dont have sex partner now , but I do understand you , if you google "sexless marriage" you will find good blogs about your situation, did you try to tease her by masturbating , one of the reasons that women hold sex (beside they dont love him ) is to gain control over him , but when you masturbate then she feel she don't have control over you .
 
Top