Is sexual dis-satisfaction make you more motivated or less

[evan12]

Do you feel you are more active and motivited when you have a sexual partner or less ?
I feel I am loosing my motivation (kind of depression) when I dont have sex for a while .
could be that is why a lot of guys playing video games , because they lost motivation in life ?

 

[glass half full]

Yes it is depressing to lay beside a woman every night who is too stubborn to "give it up". I was in that boat with a control freak. Not long ago we had toyed w/ the idea of sex that evening, around 8-ish. We were watching TV and she kept wanting to watch it. Around 1:00, I asked if we were gonna have game tonight, she says I got 2 more shows to watch. I rolled over and went to sleep. Yeah she's a real blast. I put up with her for my kids basically, cause they wouldn't grow up worth a d*mn around her and her friends, but I'm done now.

 

[evan12]

I dont have sex partner now , but I do understand you , if you google "sexless marriage" you will find good blogs about your situation, did you try to tease her by masturbating , one of the reasons that women hold sex (beside they dont love him ) is to gain control over him , but when you masturbate then she feel she don't have control over you .