Furyguy
Senior Don Juan
I think I kinda just did it, and it feels really fucking lame.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Is setting up a date through texts really lame?
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
MisterMcGee
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It all depends on your frame with the girl. I set one up really quickly with a girl I haven't seen in ages.
MisterMcGee
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I'm 1/1 (lmao)
Over facebook:
me: hey bla bla been a long time remember me?
her: bla bla of course i remember you, howve you been?
me: ive been awesome, you know how i am. actually you don't, we gotta fix that and catch up definitely. im gonna be ___ so come by around ___ .
and how have you been? (then a joke about something she did 6-7 years ago)
her: lmfao i remember those days, we def need to catch up. and yea i'll see what im doing and let you know
bla bla ive been great
me: blabla how do you remember that! youre ridiculous. my # is ____ txt me n ill get bac kto you when i can. sound good? take it easy
her: i remember everything lmfaoo kk i'll txt you,here's my # ______ oh and add me on msn ________
thats roughly how it went over facebook. she couldnt make it for that day and she ended up coming into my work (movie theatre) as i was working and tried to make it a date (didnt even buy a movie ticket. she was like "sucks that you're busy... whens your break?" etc etc)
Over facebook:
me: hey bla bla been a long time remember me?
her: bla bla of course i remember you, howve you been?
me: ive been awesome, you know how i am. actually you don't, we gotta fix that and catch up definitely. im gonna be ___ so come by around ___ .
and how have you been? (then a joke about something she did 6-7 years ago)
her: lmfao i remember those days, we def need to catch up. and yea i'll see what im doing and let you know
bla bla ive been greatme: blabla how do you remember that! youre ridiculous. my # is ____ txt me n ill get bac kto you when i can. sound good?
take it easyher: i remember everything
lmfaoo kk i'll txt you,here's my # ______ oh and add me on msn ________thats roughly how it went over facebook. she couldnt make it for that day and she ended up coming into my work (movie theatre) as i was working and tried to make it a date (didnt even buy a movie ticket. she was like "sucks that you're busy... whens your break?" etc etc)
bukowski_merit
Master Don Juan
not at all... i'm in tonight (obviously)... but have a date tomorrow night that i set up just like this (this was an accident, i didn't intend to ask her out by mentioning the bar):
HER: What are you doing tonight?
ME: My boy wants to go to kildares tonight, but im not in the mood, i have a lot of shopping and working out to catch up on.
HER: I love kildares but it gets crazy there sometimes!
ME: Crazy? I like it because everyone actually dances instead of standing around. I saw Jack@ss the other night on MTV and the crew was at the Kildares in west chester. Made me want to see what that ones like.
HER: I've always wanted to see what the one in West Chester is like too.
ME: Well then me and you shall see tomorrow night then.
HER: Sounds good.
ME: I'll be over around 8pm; wear that skirt you were talking about.... blah blah
etc etc etc....
nothing to it...
HER: What are you doing tonight?
ME: My boy wants to go to kildares tonight, but im not in the mood, i have a lot of shopping and working out to catch up on.
HER: I love kildares but it gets crazy there sometimes!
ME: Crazy? I like it because everyone actually dances instead of standing around. I saw Jack@ss the other night on MTV and the crew was at the Kildares in west chester. Made me want to see what that ones like.
HER: I've always wanted to see what the one in West Chester is like too.
ME: Well then me and you shall see tomorrow night then.
HER: Sounds good.
ME: I'll be over around 8pm; wear that skirt you were talking about.... blah blah
etc etc etc....
nothing to it...
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DonS said:
Same success rate as anything else, really. A couple F-closes, a couple flakes. It all depends on their IL beforehand. Usually, the chick will send me the text, actually, just like I said. Then I show up, and whatever happens happens. I am way more of an on the spot closer, myself. More often than not, Im getting naked with them, before I even have their number.
Furyguy
Senior Don Juan
Yeah it ended up working really well.
I still feel like a douchebag though.
I still feel like a douchebag though.