"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Is seeing someone once a week even a relationship?

Georgepithyou

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I want to know if you were in a relationship for this time frame now, would you be okay with only getting to see your GF once maybe twice a week???

I recently have started dating this girl I met from OLD, she lives about 40 minutes away from my small suburb.

We only have time to meet once a week due to work schedules, I'm just wondering is this lead even worth pursuing?

Has anyone been in a similar situation and if so how did you work it out?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Romanemp22

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If you only up to sex, it's the best scenario. You don't have to look at her face 24/7.But if you like her and want to it to work, once maybe be not enough. Note it varies from person to person.
 

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If you only up to sex, it's the best scenario. You don't have to look at her face 24/7.But if you like her and want to it to work, once maybe be not enough. Note it varies from person to person.
Sex only once a week wouldn't really work for me though, it might for some who are super busy
 

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Imho its best if you can hit 3-4 days a week. It shows you have ease of access and are y he preferred method of d1ck. But you all know how plates work better than me.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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As long as shes giving ***** every time you meet then keep her as a plate and nothing more. Relationship wouldnt go well most of the time in this situation imo.
 

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Imho its best if you can hit 3-4 days a week. It shows you have ease of access and are y he preferred method of d1ck. But you all know how plates work better than me.
Ideally that is what i would have too, 3 to 4 days a week is good especially early on in the relationship, she's not willing to make the time so i will have to drop her.
As long as shes giving ***** every time you meet then keep her as a plate and nothing more. Relationship wouldnt go well most of the time in this situation imo.
That's all fine and good if you have other plates, until I grt to that stage I'm trying to see girls more regularly
 

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It never worked for me because I was at risk of forgetting about her. I found it just wasn't enough time to do proper "relationship maintenance" to keep the attraction going, not just for her, but for me as well.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I want to know if you were in a relationship for this time frame now, would you be okay with only getting to see your GF once maybe twice a week???

I recently have started dating this girl I met from OLD, she lives about 40 minutes away from my small suburb.

We only have time to meet once a week due to work schedules, I'm just wondering is this lead even worth pursuing?

Has anyone been in a similar situation and if so how did you work it out?
You said "We." do you actually mean we or her? I ask because this is not the same thing. As a practitioner of the hero's journey, on my purpose like Deida suggests in way of the superior man, i only have once a week to give. I am sourcing other girls. More importantly, I am on my path in life. Playing house isn't a good time. Its anti seduction. It works for me until it doesn't.
 

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Yes but very casual. 2-3 is the next step on that scale. If you are not into her enough don't see them anymore then that she will be lead on.

She is the sex holder
You are the relationship/attention holder.

I know thats basics 101 but thats a great thing to visit again and again.
To the guys she chase, HE is the sex holder .
 

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If she doesnt demand attention via phone or media its great, where do I sign for that?
 
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