"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Is seeing someone once a week even a relationship?

Georgepithyou

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I want to know if you were in a relationship for this time frame now, would you be okay with only getting to see your GF once maybe twice a week???

I recently have started dating this girl I met from OLD, she lives about 40 minutes away from my small suburb.

We only have time to meet once a week due to work schedules, I'm just wondering is this lead even worth pursuing?

Has anyone been in a similar situation and if so how did you work it out?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Romanemp22

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If you only up to sex, it's the best scenario. You don't have to look at her face 24/7.But if you like her and want to it to work, once maybe be not enough. Note it varies from person to person.
 

Georgepithyou

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If you only up to sex, it's the best scenario. You don't have to look at her face 24/7.But if you like her and want to it to work, once maybe be not enough. Note it varies from person to person.
Sex only once a week wouldn't really work for me though, it might for some who are super busy
 

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Imho its best if you can hit 3-4 days a week. It shows you have ease of access and are y he preferred method of d1ck. But you all know how plates work better than me.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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As long as shes giving ***** every time you meet then keep her as a plate and nothing more. Relationship wouldnt go well most of the time in this situation imo.
 

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Imho its best if you can hit 3-4 days a week. It shows you have ease of access and are y he preferred method of d1ck. But you all know how plates work better than me.
Ideally that is what i would have too, 3 to 4 days a week is good especially early on in the relationship, she's not willing to make the time so i will have to drop her.
As long as shes giving ***** every time you meet then keep her as a plate and nothing more. Relationship wouldnt go well most of the time in this situation imo.
That's all fine and good if you have other plates, until I grt to that stage I'm trying to see girls more regularly
 

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It never worked for me because I was at risk of forgetting about her. I found it just wasn't enough time to do proper "relationship maintenance" to keep the attraction going, not just for her, but for me as well.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I want to know if you were in a relationship for this time frame now, would you be okay with only getting to see your GF once maybe twice a week???

I recently have started dating this girl I met from OLD, she lives about 40 minutes away from my small suburb.

We only have time to meet once a week due to work schedules, I'm just wondering is this lead even worth pursuing?

Has anyone been in a similar situation and if so how did you work it out?
You said "We." do you actually mean we or her? I ask because this is not the same thing. As a practitioner of the hero's journey, on my purpose like Deida suggests in way of the superior man, i only have once a week to give. I am sourcing other girls. More importantly, I am on my path in life. Playing house isn't a good time. Its anti seduction. It works for me until it doesn't.
 

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Yes but very casual. 2-3 is the next step on that scale. If you are not into her enough don't see them anymore then that she will be lead on.

She is the sex holder
You are the relationship/attention holder.

I know thats basics 101 but thats a great thing to visit again and again.
To the guys she chase, HE is the sex holder .
 

Who Dares Win

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If she doesnt demand attention via phone or media its great, where do I sign for that?
 
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