"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Is San Francisco really a white man's dating heaven?

MatureDJ

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(This is for cishets; obviously SF is known for a very diverse set of genders. :rolleyes:)


Here in the SF bay area, it is a white man's dating heaven. Can't emphasize it enough.

They regularly get ethnic ... as well as literally all of the white [chicks]. I see it every weekend. And the white [chicks] very rarely date ethnic males.

[Ethnic chicks] will almost always choose a low-mid tier white male making 24-32k over an [ethnic man] making over 6 figures. Observed it over the years in the pandemic, and it is very consistent. High earning Indians ... with average or above average SMV lose out to poor, low tier smv or normie white dudes all the time as far as dating. Observe it most especially in the weekends over the years.
my opinion: It's OVER for SFEthnicCels.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Georgepithyou

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Most women don't want indian men, idk why indian guys think they are entitled to white women.

Only ethnics that do well are Blacks and Latinos
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Hamurabimbi

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It’s not hard get a girl in the SF area. But, they tend to be less attractive than other parts of the US. However, the more suburban areas of the East Bay & Peninsula have some hotties.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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