"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Is San Francisco really a white man's dating heaven?

MatureDJ

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(This is for cishets; obviously SF is known for a very diverse set of genders. :rolleyes:)


Here in the SF bay area, it is a white man's dating heaven. Can't emphasize it enough.

They regularly get ethnic ... as well as literally all of the white [chicks]. I see it every weekend. And the white [chicks] very rarely date ethnic males.

[Ethnic chicks] will almost always choose a low-mid tier white male making 24-32k over an [ethnic man] making over 6 figures. Observed it over the years in the pandemic, and it is very consistent. High earning Indians ... with average or above average SMV lose out to poor, low tier smv or normie white dudes all the time as far as dating. Observe it most especially in the weekends over the years.
my opinion: It's OVER for SFEthnicCels.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Most women don't want indian men, idk why indian guys think they are entitled to white women.

Only ethnics that do well are Blacks and Latinos
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Hamurabimbi

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It’s not hard get a girl in the SF area. But, they tend to be less attractive than other parts of the US. However, the more suburban areas of the East Bay & Peninsula have some hotties.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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