"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Is San Francisco really a white man's dating heaven?

MatureDJ

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(This is for cishets; obviously SF is known for a very diverse set of genders. :rolleyes:)


Here in the SF bay area, it is a white man's dating heaven. Can't emphasize it enough.

They regularly get ethnic ... as well as literally all of the white [chicks]. I see it every weekend. And the white [chicks] very rarely date ethnic males.

[Ethnic chicks] will almost always choose a low-mid tier white male making 24-32k over an [ethnic man] making over 6 figures. Observed it over the years in the pandemic, and it is very consistent. High earning Indians ... with average or above average SMV lose out to poor, low tier smv or normie white dudes all the time as far as dating. Observe it most especially in the weekends over the years.
my opinion: It's OVER for SFEthnicCels.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Georgepithyou

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Most women don't want indian men, idk why indian guys think they are entitled to white women.

Only ethnics that do well are Blacks and Latinos
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Hamurabimbi

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It’s not hard get a girl in the SF area. But, they tend to be less attractive than other parts of the US. However, the more suburban areas of the East Bay & Peninsula have some hotties.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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