"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Is San Francisco really a white man's dating heaven?

MatureDJ

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(This is for cishets; obviously SF is known for a very diverse set of genders. :rolleyes:)


Here in the SF bay area, it is a white man's dating heaven. Can't emphasize it enough.

They regularly get ethnic ... as well as literally all of the white [chicks]. I see it every weekend. And the white [chicks] very rarely date ethnic males.

[Ethnic chicks] will almost always choose a low-mid tier white male making 24-32k over an [ethnic man] making over 6 figures. Observed it over the years in the pandemic, and it is very consistent. High earning Indians ... with average or above average SMV lose out to poor, low tier smv or normie white dudes all the time as far as dating. Observe it most especially in the weekends over the years.
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my opinion: It's OVER for SFEthnicCels.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Georgepithyou

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Most women don't want indian men, idk why indian guys think they are entitled to white women.

Only ethnics that do well are Blacks and Latinos
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Hamurabimbi

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It’s not hard get a girl in the SF area. But, they tend to be less attractive than other parts of the US. However, the more suburban areas of the East Bay & Peninsula have some hotties.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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