"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Is "pick up game" played out?

sosocool

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How many years has seduction/pick up technique and mindset been taught?

How many guys have learned it?

How many guys have used it?

How many girls has it been used on?

This makes you wonder...

Do what the gurus teach even work anymore?

If there are 10 guys on the planet, and 10 girls, and 8 of the guys use the same "game" on those 10 girls then the other two guys use no game, who do you think will get the girls?

just saying...
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I've wondered this myself. The thing is, with the internet being so widespread now, this stuff is available to anybody who wants to know about it. If it gets to the point where all guys understand pickup, it sort of resets the field, doesn't it? But understanding it and executing it well are two different things.

What I really wonder is how many girls are aware of it? And if they are, does it affect the outcome at all? How many know what a neg is and recognize one when it is being used? Some guys just neg naturally though. I think it's probably best to stay away from routine based techniques and go more natural, build value and work on inner game and mindset.
 

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zekko said:
I think it's probably best to stay away from routine based techniques and go more natural, build value and work on inner game and mindset.
I agree. If you can get your inner game right (confidence exuding, charm switched on, positive and fun energy flowing, etc) then you might just come off as being unique, or better yet, original. But if everyone is being ****y or funny or asking stupid survey questions, and if there a lot of YOU in area x, with x amount of women, then you'll appear like everyone else. Kind of ironic if the reason you're learning game is to be different, ain't it?

we should probably ask ourselves how many of us are in x land with x amount of women and x amount of dudes using y method before using y method.

substitute x with accurate info and you know whether or not your should even bother with y method.

just saying....
 
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