"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Is "pick up game" played out?

sosocool

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How many years has seduction/pick up technique and mindset been taught?

How many guys have learned it?

How many guys have used it?

How many girls has it been used on?

This makes you wonder...

Do what the gurus teach even work anymore?

If there are 10 guys on the planet, and 10 girls, and 8 of the guys use the same "game" on those 10 girls then the other two guys use no game, who do you think will get the girls?

just saying...
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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I've wondered this myself. The thing is, with the internet being so widespread now, this stuff is available to anybody who wants to know about it. If it gets to the point where all guys understand pickup, it sort of resets the field, doesn't it? But understanding it and executing it well are two different things.

What I really wonder is how many girls are aware of it? And if they are, does it affect the outcome at all? How many know what a neg is and recognize one when it is being used? Some guys just neg naturally though. I think it's probably best to stay away from routine based techniques and go more natural, build value and work on inner game and mindset.
 

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zekko said:
I think it's probably best to stay away from routine based techniques and go more natural, build value and work on inner game and mindset.
I agree. If you can get your inner game right (confidence exuding, charm switched on, positive and fun energy flowing, etc) then you might just come off as being unique, or better yet, original. But if everyone is being ****y or funny or asking stupid survey questions, and if there a lot of YOU in area x, with x amount of women, then you'll appear like everyone else. Kind of ironic if the reason you're learning game is to be different, ain't it?

we should probably ask ourselves how many of us are in x land with x amount of women and x amount of dudes using y method before using y method.

substitute x with accurate info and you know whether or not your should even bother with y method.

just saying....
 
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