Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Is "pick up game" played out?

sosocool

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How many years has seduction/pick up technique and mindset been taught?

How many guys have learned it?

How many guys have used it?

How many girls has it been used on?

This makes you wonder...

Do what the gurus teach even work anymore?

If there are 10 guys on the planet, and 10 girls, and 8 of the guys use the same "game" on those 10 girls then the other two guys use no game, who do you think will get the girls?

just saying...
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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zekko

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I've wondered this myself. The thing is, with the internet being so widespread now, this stuff is available to anybody who wants to know about it. If it gets to the point where all guys understand pickup, it sort of resets the field, doesn't it? But understanding it and executing it well are two different things.

What I really wonder is how many girls are aware of it? And if they are, does it affect the outcome at all? How many know what a neg is and recognize one when it is being used? Some guys just neg naturally though. I think it's probably best to stay away from routine based techniques and go more natural, build value and work on inner game and mindset.
 

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zekko said:
I think it's probably best to stay away from routine based techniques and go more natural, build value and work on inner game and mindset.
I agree. If you can get your inner game right (confidence exuding, charm switched on, positive and fun energy flowing, etc) then you might just come off as being unique, or better yet, original. But if everyone is being ****y or funny or asking stupid survey questions, and if there a lot of YOU in area x, with x amount of women, then you'll appear like everyone else. Kind of ironic if the reason you're learning game is to be different, ain't it?

we should probably ask ourselves how many of us are in x land with x amount of women and x amount of dudes using y method before using y method.

substitute x with accurate info and you know whether or not your should even bother with y method.

just saying....
 
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