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What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
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There is truth on the connections to 1980s rock bands. However, a lot of hip hop of the last 20-25 years works for strip clubs too. It's been a long time since I've been to a strip club.1. A lot of 80's rock bands promoted strip clubs in their music and videos. You don't have that anymore. Also the music back then was a great fit for strip clubs.
Good points. Though OnlyFans women might deal with internet bullying, internet trolls, and disrespectful online comments. The majority of OnlyFans women don't make enough off of OnlyFans to pay bills. They would still need another job, which could be stripping or a breastaurant.2. Strippers used to make their money off the stage. Some could actually dance. Most changed outfits thru out the night. It was about putting on a show. Now days they can't dance, they wear lame outfits and don't change. All the money is made off lap dances and hand jobs in the back. So it's attracted a different type of girl. If you don't want to get dirty you aren't going to make as much money unless you're really hot and hustler.
3. Entertaining is hard work, nobody is happy and in the mood to party 4-5 days a week. Only Fans is much easier and you have more control. You also don't deal with disrespectful customers. It's horrible some of the things guys try and get away with. Dating strippers and hearing their stories set me back a bit.
This is a challenge for both strip clubs and breastaurants. At least with the breastaurants, the women aren't getting naked so it's slightly more forgiving. A woman can't be fat at either of those jobs.4. There are too many girls that don't look good naked these days. More fatties than ever before in the 20 something age group. The clubs are all using traveling dancers or bringing in foreign girls. Lots of dirty cuban girls dancing.
Strippers are also paying house fees for stage time.6. There isn't as much money to be made. It wasnt uncommon in the 90's-2005 for girls to be able to afford nice Mercedes, BMW's,and Porsches. A lot of strippers had nice cars. A friend of mine was averaging $1500/nite back in early 2000's.
Everyone in here hates when I say this, but I elevated my social and seduction skills practicing on strippers. It got me comfortable around attractive women. Lap dances never did anything for me, but building a connection thru conversation did. Seeing how long I could keep a stripper on my lap talking about anything under the sun was a thrill for me. My table was always a revolving door of girls like I was something special but I wasn't. Barely spent any money. Had a lot of interesting conversations.There is truth on the connections to 1980s rock bands. However, a lot of hip hop of the last 20-25 years works for strip clubs too. It's been a long time since I've been to a strip club.
Good points. Though OnlyFans women might deal with internet bullying, internet trolls, and disrespectful online comments. The majority of OnlyFans women don't make enough off of OnlyFans to pay bills. They would still need another job, which could be stripping or a breastaurant.
This is a challenge for both strip clubs and breastaurants. At least with the breastaurants, the women aren't getting naked so it's slightly more forgiving. A woman can't be fat at either of those jobs.
Strippers are also paying house fees for stage time.
Simps can do their simping from the comfort of their own home vs. the strip club. High speed internet connections were in fewer households in 1990-2005. It is healthier to see a stripper naked vs. online porn. A lot of simps don't realize that.
I had never read that story about you. I can imagine how that would be possible so I don't think that's a bad thing. You apparently weren't a big spender so that's not simping. Did you happen to go on slower nights? It seems possible that a strip club on a Tuesday or Wednesday night would allow for an extended conversation.Everyone in here hates when I say this, but I elevated my social and seduction skills practicing on strippers. It got me comfortable around attractive women. Lap dances never did anything for me, but building a connection thru conversation did. Seeing how long I could keep a stripper on my lap talking about anything under the sun was a thrill for me. My table was always a revolving door of girls like I was something special but I wasn't. Barely spent any money. Had a lot of interesting conversations.
Yeah I barely spent anything. Thru a few bucks on the main stage and that was it. I'd go in the late afternoon around 3-6.I had never read that story about you. I can imagine how that would be possible so I don't think that's a bad thing. You apparently weren't a big spender so that's not simping. Did you happen to go on slower nights? It seems possible that a strip club on a Tuesday or Wednesday night would allow for an extended conversation.
The biggest difference between a strip club and a breastaurant is that it would be possible to have a meaningful conversation with a male friend while at a breastaurant. At a strip club, that isn't happening.I remember many years back, hearing an ad on the radio for a sports bar/restaurant. It was listing the good food it had, and added "with a hot, young wait staff". I always thought that was a curious thing to advertise. I mean, I guess it makes sense, but it seems strange to advertise that. What are they saying, come in and ogle at our staff, or come in and flirt with our staff?
I guess that's why I've always found the breastaurant idea to be kind of weird, knowing that waitresses are incentivized to be flirty with the customers to get better tips and sell more food and drinks. I suppose it's just like a strip club lite though.
I would be happy if there just weren't any fat chick waitresses at such places.Twin Peaks has done well getting to roughly 100 locations. They have a solid grasp on the marketing mix. There's so much competition now in the breastaurant space that these brands need to find ways to differentiate. The differentiator for Twin Peaks was having outfits with midriffs showing and the hunting lodge interior theme.
Some breastaurants will use women in G string bikinis as the point of differentiation.
Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.
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We are a kindred spirit.Seeing how long I could keep a stripper on my lap talking about anything under the sun was a thrill for me. My table was always a revolving door of girls like I was something special but I wasn't. Barely spent any money. Had a lot of interesting conversations.
I had visited Montreal a few decades ago. There seemed to be a lot of strip clubs there.In Montréal, alot of the strip clubs are closing / have Closed.
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