"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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is NC for weak?

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JdelaSilviera

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I mean, if the girl was completly indiferent to you and texted you saying "hi" you would respond.
Isn´t it a bit transparent that you are hurt?

I agree that no contact may be necessary, in order to forget someone, but the girl will realize that she hurt your feelings, and that she is important to you. Kind of an ego boost for her right?

What do you think...
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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No. I don't think it's for the weak. I agree with you, when you want to get over someone, the best way, and the one that worked for me, is to cut all communication with that person, and not care what anyone says or thinks.

If she feels that she hurt your feelings, oh well, she probably did, but sh*t happens. Once again, I'd not be in a situation where she txts me because I would cut all communication with her in the 1st place.

Eventually, the best "revenge" though is to go out, have fun, increase your social circle, do things you love to do. Communicate by "No Contact" that even though she was at one point a part of your universe, she was not the center of it, and you do not need her to enjoy your life.
 
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Why is it weak to stop acknowledging a person that disrespected you? If anything, it makes you strong. You're holding your ground.

It would be weak to continue talking to this person and let them walk all over you.
 
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I've thought about this too and I find that the best way to take control of the situation is to throw humor into it.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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